This is what happens when it's too cold to ride her bike outside. Also notice the awesome forehead bandaid she rocked for 2 days on an invisible owie. |
As frustrating as this delay is, we have been able to see some silver linings. The first is that in the next couple months we might be able to financially pull this off without any adoption debt whatsoever. That would be amazing. The financial blessings that we've had through this process have been miraculous. Seriously, it's a good thing that the Lord doesn't show us the whole picture all at once, because I would probably have been more than overwhelmed at the price tag that comes with international adoption.
The next is that if we have to delay having the boys come home, it also delays them having to deal with as much of a Utah winter as possible. The idea of being able to wrap up in our little house for a month or so, and then have the possibility of starting to go outside, to the park, and working in the garden, is really a happy one. I dreaded having them go from spending a lot of time each day outside in 70 degree year round weather to months of winter and almost no outside time. So that's a definite upside.
The more flippant upside is that it will give me more time to become more proficient at cooking good Ethiopian food. :) So far I feel like I'm doing pretty well. Our freezer now has freezer bags full of Ethiopian lentils, vegetable stew, and injera. I feel like I'm starting to master the art of cooking injera, and am now just in a waiting game with the injera "start" (it's like sourdough) to see if the flavor gets a little bolder as I continue to use it or whether I need to go back to the African market and beg them to sell me a start. I've been making an Ethiopian dinner every couple weeks or so, and we're all getting more accustomed to the flavors. Even Kate is starting to eat some without too much prodding. She especially likes helping make the injera.
Anyway, we really are feeling blessed, even if things haven't happened in the time frame we were hoping for.
The race is on! It'll be interesting to see which of all the little boys that are on their way to the Bayles Bunch arrives first - yours or ours. For the record, I really hope you guys win. :)
ReplyDeleteI hope we do, too. :) Thanks Pam!
DeleteThanks for the update. Love you guys!
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